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Signs that that you are in a relationship with a selfish person

A selfish person is someone who is excessively or exclusively self-concerned and seeking or concentrating on their own advantage, pleasure or well-being without much regard for those of others. Being in a relationship with this kind of person is a terrible idea.

Selfish people don’t know they’re being selfish.

They just assume they’re nice people who care a lot about their own happiness and inner peace more than anything else but on their journey towards finding their happiness, they carelessly and intentionally walk over people.

In every relationship, be it platonic or romantic, partners give and take from each other in equal measures without keeping count. A relationship with a selfish person means they don’t care about their partner’s emotions or happiness and suck all the love and make the whole relationship only about them.

Most times, it’s very hard to figure out that you are in a relationship with a selfish person because they are good at manipulating and gaslighting. They are very intelligent and charming.

Selfishness is a big issue these days. Books have been written about narcissism , “Generation Me,” even "healthy" selfishness. But when someone you have to deal with for example your spouse regularly is consistently self-involved and self-centered, they can make your life miserable.

Here are simple ways to know your partner is selfish;

* They don’t care about the feelings of others

If your partner never ask how you are, what’s on your mind and maybe what you want but all they care about is their own well-being and happiness that means they are very selfish and being in a relationship with this kind of person will drain your energy and leave you broken

* They are Manipulative

most timemaybe what you want but all they care about is their own well-being and happiness that means they are very selfish and being in a relationship with this kind of person will drain your energy and leave you broken.

* They take and take until there’s nothing left to take

They will continue to take everything they can from you, whether that be consoling, money, attention, sex — anything and everything until you're literally given your everything. The second you put your foot down on giving, they are already out the door because they aren’t built for compromise and solutions when the only thing they see when looking out into the world is their own reflection.

* They are entitled 

Another way to know you are in a relationship with a selfish person is when they feel entitled to your money, attention, love and emotions without giving it back. When you don’t give them what they want, they get upset and maybe violent or try to gaslight you. 

* They don’t compromise 

A relationship is about two imperfect people that agree to be together and make things work. Therefore, compromises must be made because that’s what love is all about. If your partner will never go out of their way for you or make a simple compromise for you, that’s how to know they are very selfish and you need to get out of that relationship. 

* They don’t show emotions 

A selfish partner will starve you of their emotions. They won’t show any emotions or tell you how they feel about you. This is frustrating and being with someone that does not show emotions is mentally draining. 

* They bore you with excuses 

They're “too busy” or “tired,” or didn't have their phone on them, aka they don't care to take two seconds to respond to you because doing so does not serve them. If you were to send them a naked picture, however, that person would respond right away because it works in their favor to do so — in order to get more from you.

You see, it's another opportunity for them to profit (unlike a real conversation where that person has to also give in return). 

* They are very insecure

People feel insecure when they see something as a threat. For a person who wants to be the man of the show, being insecure seems to be a normal trait. His insecurities relate to the fact that someone else might take his position or he may lose control. The fear of being replaced by someone else could be haunting him. Moreover, if he is insecure about something you do or some decision you make, then it is because he fears that it might cause harm to something that benefits him or is important to him.

* Your partner makes you feel worthless

If your partner is always belittling or nagging you, chances are they make you feel worthless. It has nothing to do with you, as a selfish person will never take your needs into consideration. According to them, things are always about them; which is why they will not be able to take it when you are the center of attention.

* Your partner is controlling

If you are in a relationship where your partner expects certain things of you, but refuses to give it back; he/she has a controlling behavior. Your partner should not have the right to dictate how you live your life — a healthy suggestion is another thing. Selfish people will not see it this way and you will need to explain to them how this is unfair.

* They don’t understand the concept of sharing and giving

If your partner is literally selfish and does not share anything with you then it’s a sign that they are no good for you and you need a break.

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